How To Kiss

Kissing is one of life's most innocent guilty pleasures. The universal show of displaying feelings and romantic affection can be shown at any time and any place. You can kiss your love the first time you meet her during the day and you can kiss her goodbye when you drop her off at home or work. You can kiss her by the beach or at the top of a high rise building. You can kiss her in the wee hours of the night or at the break of dawn. You can kiss her in the shower or in the cozy corner seat during the movies. You can kiss her by the moonlight or on when you are vacationing with her. You can knowingly kiss when she expects it and you can kiss her by surprise.

Can you imagine what a profound impact it leaves on your beloved after a stimulating kiss session? You will know by the smile in which she answers your phone call, hugs you and beckons you for an encore. To kiss confidently, be confident. To be confident, you have to relax. It is best not to think about anything. Do not pay attention to the result. Enjoy the process.

Most people think that kissing is all about mouths and lips. Hands play an ultra-prominent part in kissing. You can use them around her back, on her waist; caress her arms, hips, shoulders and virtually everything in between. The best way to kiss her intimately would be to hold both the fingers of your hand and clasp the back of her neck with a light massage to the head. Just like every great actor gives his shot like it was its first shot; make your every kiss as unknown and interesting as your first one.

Use your hands generously when kissing. Many people do not use their hands at all or are clumsy while kissing. Some use their hands to support themselves from falling back or losing balance. You could wrap them around her waist, around her hips, use them to grasp her back, or knead her scalp. Wherever your hands are, use them. Slowly increase the pressure, or gently move your fingers in non-erotic zones like the back, shoulders, arms and face.

You should always try to kiss her face in place other than the lips. You should kiss her on the forehead. Mix your heavy deep kisses with light soft pecks. Include her eyes, cheeks, forehead, neck, and hands, and kiss her according to her comfort level. She will be more comfortable, and will be pleased about your kiss if it's sincere and sexy. She will also be the first one to notice if your kiss is fake. Your imagination will take you places. Close your eyes when you kiss and make sure that you end the kiss with a small soft ending kiss. The how to kiss can be simplified into a three step process:

kissing Tips

1. Set the ambience: If you are driving her home, it is a good idea to exercise chivalry. Women love it very much. If you both happen to watch TV on a couch, you should arrange it in such a way that she is comfortably wedged at the end of the seat. Her body should be leaning on the sofa’s arm while you are seated at her side. This way she will not be able to shun you away when you are kissing her. Take her to a place where she can’t leave the place and go. It doesn’t mean you have to trap her. But at the same time, she should have no choice but sit in there and enjoy you.
    
2. Set the mood: This involves gently seducing her and making her come into her element and getting ready to be swept off the feet by you. Ideally you should make her used to your kisses before you give the sexy smooch. You could start by giving her a kiss goodbye or kissing her lightly on the cheek, giving her a smack on the kiss, giving her flying kisses or kissing her softly on her lips. You can even kiss your finger and touch it to her lips. All these will make her used to the tactile you.
    
3. Let your lips do the talking: When you are alone with her on her, move your arm around her in a gentle, non-threatening way. If she does not wince away from you or push your arm off her, you can advance to the next step. Next lean your head against hers, appearing to rest it. Take her hand from yours slowly and gently as if in a flow. Let it flow. Keep the tip of your index finger under her chin and lift her head to your mouth. Do all this in slow motion. She will remember this moment if you are slow. Don't rush it. Concentrate and immerse yourself in the kiss for that precious moment of time. In fact, I don’t even have to say because you will be immersed naturally. If she pushes you away, it means that she is not yet ready for it. You should not rush and try to still pursue with your vain attempt. You can always make her feel nice by giving her a big hug. Chances are that she will respect your decency and will give in sooner than expected. Just keep the caresses and the communication going.

How To Make a Women kiss You The Way You Want To Be kissed

Women want to kiss for the sheer pleasure of kissing. For them it is can stir a sensation which can equal to an orgasmic delight. She may not shake or quiver from the sensation but it will make her feel blissful and loving just like a post-orgasmic feel. They say if you want to be felt like a king, then you should make your woman feel like a queen. If you expect pleasure and more pleasure from her, you have to give her contentment as well.

The first thing you can do is to make her feel relaxed. Make her feel comfortable about you and the surroundings around her. The best idea can be to take her to some place private and romantic. Kiss her with your lips slightly parted or closed initially. Gradually open your mouth while kissing and she will reciprocate well. She should find you desirable enough to kiss. You do not have to look good, you have to smell good. As far as possible there should be no trace of bad breath. Toss the cigarette away, pop in a mint, dab a manly perfume and yes take a good shower. Drink lots of water to keep your mouth moist.

To start with, you can get her used to your kiss by kissing her frequently on her cheeks. With your hands around her shoulders, gently brush your lips across her cheeks. You can also suck her earlobes playfully, without making any kind of sucking noise. You can also kiss her on her forehead or eyelids (at the spot below the brow bone) as a mark of respect for her love. She will find it quite romantic and touching. You can kiss her on her hands or even fingers. Very soon your girl will develop a taste for your touch and lips and even crave for it. There is no woman worth her salt who will not quiver with passion secretly or otherwise when you kiss her on the arch of her neck. Start with kissing and nibbling the ear and then go on to the earlobe. Move your kisses to the neck and the jawbone. Pull away momentarily and then gently offer a soft kiss on her lips. Press your lips harder and suck softly on one of the lips. Caress her hair gently when you kiss her.

One of the best ways of proposing and kissing her the same time is by taking her face his into your hands and then rubbing your finger gently across her lips and looking deep in her eyes and telling her that she makes you fall madly in love with her. Touch her lips with yours and then probe her mouth open with your tongue. Another technique is to hold her face in your hand and make her close her eyes. You should start kissing her forehead, then kiss both her eyelids and then seek her lips. Quite reflexively, her lips will accept you and even kiss you back while you caress her and move your hand all over her. Alternatively you can hold her head and just concentrate on the pleasure of kissing, till she acknowledges by moving her hands around your neck or your back as a sign to explore her with your hands as well.

You can take a piece of ice during the foreplay and run it all over her naked body from her lips down to her genital lips. Chances are that the ice will melt before- hand but she will take cue from you and run an ice cube on your naked body also. Be spontaneous with your kiss at times also. When she is busy with something like doing the dish or writing something on the computer, hug her from behind and kiss her firmly on the back of her neck or shoulder. You can expect her to turn around, hug you and kiss you back. Be a little naughty with the act. When you are driving with her and there is no traffic, you can lean toward her and kiss her. You can even kiss every alternate time when your car halts at the signal. Why alternate times? Because at other times, you should ask her to kiss you. You can even ask her to kiss you like the way you kiss her because you want to know how it feels to kiss you. She will be glad to show it to you.

You can play a kissing game with her over some topic where if you win, you will kiss her and if you lose, she can kiss you. This will be one game you will definitely like to lose! For a girl who is not habituated to kissing or just started kissing, you can start with teasing her. Kiss her on her forehead and give a short kiss on her lips. Lift her arm and kiss her on her hand, her fingers as you caress her face and hair. Seek her lips again and kiss her a little longer till she lets you kiss her passionately. Your body also has erogenous zones. Let her know what they are. Apart from your familiar penis and the lips, there are a lot of kissable areas like:

• The area under the chin
• Eyelids
• Collar bone
• Nipples
• Upper arms
• Small of our back
• Tummy
• Inside of the thighs
• Arch of the neck
• Behind their knees

The most romantic kiss you can give to a woman when she is sleeping. Before she awakens, you should lean over and kiss her cheek and then give her soft kisses till you teach her lips. You will see the favor returned when you see that you are awakened one fine day by a kiss which starts with your lips, goes through your chest and all the way down.